What Is He Thinking??: What Guys Want Us to Know About Dating, Love, and Marriage by Rebecca St. James
“In WHAT IS HE THINKING??, Rebecca interviews a range of men from high-profile types to the guys next door, men that every woman can relate to. Although the interviews focus on single guys ages 20-35, Rebecca also includes words of wisdom from older mentors she respects who have been successfully married for years, people like her dad, life coach, and pastor.
The men share their thoughts on topics like how women can respect themselves and the men in their lives, modesty, purity, taking it slow, friendship, letting guys lead, and more. This book gives them the floor to say what they would really like women to know.
Rebecca also discusses her own dating life, speaking openly about the single life, her struggle with loneliness, and her hope for the future. She challenges women to see the men in their lives as brothers in Christ and to trust God with their dating lives.”
This book is very much geared towards single women but I did get some out of it and ways to help my own relationship with my husband and with God.
Rebecca St. James interviewed several men, some single, some married and got their thoughts on questions us women ask. There are 8 chapters covering different topics and within those chapters are mini topics that all relate to the chapter. At the end of each chapter there is a “few takeaways” section where we are given the gist of what the chapter was about and how to apply it to our lives.
As we know most men(and women) look for a physical attraction first when looking for a mate. But Rebecca St. James has the guys take that thought further and asks them what makes a women attractive to them. A lot talked about the woman’s character and her relationship with God as being very important to them. A lot of men said that a women shouldn’t be pushy when it comes to getting their attention, but yet make sure your intentions are known.
I think this book would be perfect for a young single women group. You could read a chapter a week and discuss what you learned and how you can apply it to today.
I enjoyed reading this book. I even had some good laughs and good “awww” moments while reading this book.
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