As a family we’ve been going through a rough time financially. At the end of last dance season (2015/16) we had to figure out if we could keep our girls in dance. I can’t work a regular job because of health reasons and my husband is working as hard as he can to keep up with life and medical bills.
In June 2016 I sat our girls down and explained that we have to figure out a way to pay for dance without using daddy’s money. I told them about what a vision board was and we made one for our goals. We first figured out what our goal was. We needed money for summer dance classes, tuition for the 2016/17 year, competition entry fees, costume fees, photos, year end show tickets and things like shoes, tights, makeup… We then came up with ideas on how to get this money. The girls wanted to give their birthday and tooth fairy money to the goal. As well as they went through their toys and clothes and decided we should have a yard sale. We then made two goals. We met the first goal within a week of our goal date. We met our second goal a few weeks after our goal date. We also agreed that we would never say “if” we meet our goal, but we would say “when” we meet our goal.
In the beginning we had 2 yard sales, we felt it important that the girls be fully involved in setting up this yard sale. We wanted them to know it takes hard work to earn the money they needed to do the things they wanted to do. Our yard sale consisted of items around our house that we now longer used or needed. The girls also set up a water and snack stand. We made sure we kept track of how much we spent on supplies and made sure we paid daddy back. The 2 yard sales paid for summer classes.
Aside from the yard sales I started selling items on kijiji and VarageSale. We soon ran out of items to sell from around the house so my husband and I came up with the idea of selling items people throw out along the side of the road. For years it bothered me seeing so many good items going to landfill. We’d go out trash night, find items we thought were still good enough to use. The next day the girls and I would look through the items, clean them up and make any repairs that may be needed. It was important to us to have the girls involved in this work as well.
Amazingly enough we found really good items and were able to sell them. The rest of the dance year was paid for by other people’s “trash”. At first I felt guilty selling “garbage” but then I thought about it. We took the time to pick the items up, saving them from the landfill, we took the time to clean them up and fixed anything that was broken. I then took the time to photograph, measure and list the items. Then I had to arrange pick up of the items. All the while dealing with no-shows, late comers and down right rude people. I decided I should not feel guilty for selling other people’s “trash”. I was doing the hard work the people who threw them out should have done if they wanted the money. Don’t get me wrong, I was thankful that people were throwing out perfectly good items. It helped our family a lot.
Our neighbors were amazing to us as well. They found out what we were doing and instead of throwing out good stuff or donating it to a thrift store, they would give their items to us. I hope with this blog post that maybe more of our friends and family will think of us before throwing something out or donating. We’d gladly pick it up from them and do the leg work of finding a new home for their unwanted items.
We also did small projects around the neighborhood to help pay for dance. We raked leaves, helped shovel snow and other helpful things. We never asked for a specific amount but welcomed a donation.
The most important lesson we wanted to teach our girls was that this money was a huge blessing that came from God. We taught them about tithing and we had them tithe on everything they made. I loved seeing how excited they were to put the money into the offering plate at church. Tithing should be a joy, not a job, and our girls found joy.
I’m not sure what the 2017/18 dance season will look like and whether we’ll be able to sell as much. The trash pick up and rules are changing this Spring and I’m nervous that there won’t be as much out there. But we’re going to trust that the money will come. The girls and I plan on making a new vision board for the new year.